Background
Understanding Food Allergies: The Basics
A food allergy occurs when the body mistakes a specific food as harmful. This leads the immune system to overreact and results in reactions which can range from mild to severe. Remember, the immune system’s job is to protect the body by identifying potential threats and fighting them off. In most cases, the immune system does a good job in identifying true threats. For a child with allergies, however, the immune system mistakenly identifies an otherwise safe food as a threat. Click
here for more background on food allergies in general.
As a parent of a child with food allergies, it is also helpful to know the
most common food allergens, as well as the difference between
a food allergy and a food intolerance.
Being familiar with the common symptoms of an
allergic reaction is also important. These include:
- Skin reactions (hive, swelling)
- Digestive issues (vomiting, diarrhea, stomach pain)
- Respiratory symptoms (wheezing, cough, difficulty breathing)
- Anaphylaxis (severe, whole-body reaction)
You're Not Alone: Food Allergy Prevalence
Food allergies are common. About 1 in 13 children (8%) in the United States have a food allergy. That means, in a daycare class of 20 children, 1-2 will, on average, have a food allergy. In addition, among those with a food allergy, 40% are allergic to more than one food.
Food allergies have also been rising in prevalence for the past two decades. This means that parents today face a higher likelihood of food allergy in their children than parents of prior generations.
The nine most common allergens account for over 90% of reactions. Here they are by prevalence:
- Peanut: 2.2% children, 1.8% adults
- Milk: 1.9% children, 1.9% adults
- Shellfish: 1.3% children, 2.9% adults
- Tree nuts: 1.2% children, 1.2% adults
- Egg: 0.9% children, 0.8% adults
- Fish (finned fish): 0.6% children, 0.9% adults
- Wheat: 0.5% children, 0.8% adults
- Soy: 0.5% children, 0.6% adults
- Sesame: 0.2% children, 0.2% adults
It's important to note that food allergy risk varies by age, with infants and young children at higher risk for certain allergies. For instance, 8.9% of infants have an egg allergy, much higher than the average rate among all children. And, 2-3% of children under three years old have a milk allergy.
Some Food Allergies Are Outgrown
Your child's immune system develops rapidly until around age 5. Since food allergies are a function of a person’s immune system, whether your child has food allergies and how severe they are can change during this period.
How likely your child will outgrow their food allergy can depend on which foods they are allergic to as well. According to this
clinical review, milk and egg allergies are more likely to be outgrown as children age while peanut, tree nut, sesame, fish, and shellfish allergies are more likely to persist into adulthood.
Allergies More Likely to Be Outgrown:
- Milk allergy: 19% outgrow by age 4, 79% outgrow by age 16
- Egg allergy: 89% outgrow by age 6
Allergies That Usually Persist:
- Peanut allergy: 14.8 to 29% outgrow by ages 6-10
- Tree nut allergy: 9% outgrow by age 10
- Sesame, fish, and shellfish allergy: Generally persist into adulthood
However, it is difficult to predict specifically how your child’s immune system will change over the years. While they have a food allergy, proper management and treatment remain critical. You can work with your allergist to monitor your child’s allergy, for instance through
regular testing or food challenges, in order to determine if the allergy has been outgrown or not.
Living with Food Allergies
An Overview of Treatment Approaches
There is no single approach to treating food allergies. How you and your family decide to manage a food allergy will depend on multiple factors, such as the severity of your child’s allergy, lifestyle constraints, availability of care, and other preferences. Below is an overview of potential options. The development of a treatment plan, which may include one or more of the approaches described below, should take place in conversation with your doctor.
1. Strict Avoidance
Strict avoidance is the treatment approach that people are usually most familiar with. Just as it sounds, it entails completely avoiding the allergen. This approach requires:
- Reading all food labels carefully (more tips and guidance here)
- Understanding cross-contamination risks
- Carrying emergency medications
- Ensuring all caregivers, childcare or schools, and restaurants are aware of any allergies and can guarantee lack of exposure. In cases of severe allergies, medical alert bracelets can be used.
Strict avoidance is a common approach and, for decades, was the only option. Strict avoidance is frequently used as “standard of care” and provides the foundation of food allergy management.
2. Food Ladders
Certain children with milk or egg allergies may be candidates for a food ladder approach. This approach builds on the fact that many children who are allergic to milk or egg in their “pure” or less-cooked form can tolerate these same foods when they’ve been cooked. This is because the cooking process breaks down the proteins in ways that make them less likely to trigger an allergic reaction. As always, discuss with your allergist whether a food ladder approach is appropriate for your child.
While the specifics can vary, a food ladder approach generally entails starting with the most easily tolerated, most cooked versions of the allergen and gradually exposing your child to less processed forms of the allergen. In this way, your child will “climb” the food ladder to gain increasing tolerance to these allergens. Children usually require 1-3 months of regular exposure to each “rung” of the ladder before progressing. This process can be done at home in consultation with an allergist and involves common foods, such as baked goods (e.g., muffins), pancakes, egg noodles, or pizza. (
Here is an example of a food ladder.)
The food ladder approach is
only applicable to some children with milk and egg allergies. The goal is to increase your child’s tolerance to these foods and has the added benefit of being done at home, rather than in a clinical setting.
3. Oral Immunotherapy (OIT)
While research on oral immunotherapy has been around since the turn of the century, widespread clinical use of this treatment approach began about a decade ago, making it a relatively newer option compared to strict avoidance. It also is not suitable for all babies and may not be offered by all clinics, but years of experience have shown it to be both safe and effective.
Like the food ladder approach, OIT involves gradually exposing your child to the allergen in order to increase their tolerance. Unlike the food ladder approach, however, OIT:
- Is applicable to allergens other than milk and egg
- Takes place under medical supervision
- Requires a specialized clinic and strict protocol
- Can take months to years to complete
The objective of OIT is to increase your child’s tolerance to their allergen — in other words, to raise the threshold of food your child would need to consume to cause an allergic reaction. OIT can also reduce reaction severity, which is valuable in case of accidental exposures. OIT involves daily dosing of a prespecified quantity of the allergen, and consistently following the protocols is critical to achieving effectiveness.
Children treated with OIT are still recommended to avoid the allergen in settings aside from the prespecified dose (unless the OIT dose is sufficient enough so that the allergen is no longer restricted).
Furthermore, because OIT requires daily dosing, multiple caregivers may need to be educated on how to administer your child’s dose. Note that keeping epinephrine around is still recommended during OIT.
If you are interested in trying OIT, it is important to bring it up with your doctor and to find out what OIT options are available in your area. Not all allergists offer OIT, so it will be important to find out what resources you are able to access locally.
4. Xolair (omalizumab)
Xolair (omalizumab) is an injection approved by the FDA in February 2024 for food allergy treatment in children ages 1 or older. This makes it the newest approach to food allergy treatment. Xolair works by blocking the immunoglobulin E (IgE) antibodies that trigger an allergic reaction.
Like OIT, Xolair serves to build your child’s tolerance to the allergen by increasing the threshold for reactions and reduces reaction severity to accidental exposures. Unlike OIT, doses are given every 2-4 weeks rather than daily, making it potentially more manageable.
Children treated with Xolair are still recommended to avoid allergen exposure. Unlike strict avoidance, however, the risks associated with accidental exposure or cross-contamination are mitigated. As with OIT, keeping epinephrine around is recommended.
Your Child's Developing Immune System: A Window of Opportunity for Prevention
Existing food allergies are strongly linked to a higher risk of developing additional food allergies. In other words, if your child is allergic to walnut, they are more likely to also be allergic to other common allergens like shellfish or soy. One food allergy is already a headache; so trying to prevent that from turning into multiple allergies can be worth it!
Luckily, there are steps you can take to decrease the risk of additional allergies developing:
keep introducing other allergens into your child’s diet. Early and consistent exposure to common allergens is recommended for all babies and is even more important for babies with a diagnosed food allergy. This might feel counterintuitive. Parents whose child has one food allergy may want to avoid other allergens in order to reduce the risk of a future reaction. Yet, premature avoidance of common allergens has actually been linked to
increased risk of developing food allergies. Indeed,
the critical window for allergy prevention continues from infancy to around age 5. This is because a child's immune system is changing the most rapidly during this time, so actions you take during this time have a higher likelihood of shaping its development.
Hungry for more? Check out our how-to guide on
how to safely introduce allergens. Some key takeaways include:
- Start small. Begin with just 1/8 to 1/4 teaspoon of the allergenic food. Keeping the quantity small means that even if your baby does have a reaction, the reaction is more likely to be mild and manageable at home.
- Treating eczema (if your child has it) is critical. Eczema is a major risk factor for developing food allergies. This is because allergens can enter the body through the compromised skin barrier, increasing the likelihood the immune system identifies it as a threat. Work with your doctor to develop an aggressive eczema treatment plan.
- Don't avoid other foods out of fear. Avoiding other common allergens increases the risk that your child will develop an allergy to that food.
- Ask your doctor about whether any introductions should happen in clinic for safety.
- Preventing food allergies is an ongoing process. Because your child’s immune system is still evolving, they can develop a food allergy to a food they had previously tolerated if they have not been regularly exposed. Maintaining consistent exposure can be a headache, so we designed First Bites to help make it easier!
More allergen-specific guidance is here, such as ideas for how to serve them and how often they should be consumed. We also include the most common allergens in the
First Bites app to help you stay on top of regular exposure.
An Overview on Types of Allergy Testing
There are two goals of allergy testing:
- Diagnosis. Testing is necessary to arrive at a definitive diagnosis of food allergy. There are multiple reasons that your child may have a reaction to a food. A diagnostic allergy test helps rule out other causes to ensure you are following the optimal treatment approach.
- Monitoring. Your child’s food allergy may change over time, either because their immune system is still developing and/or because you are following a treatment approach like oral immunotherapy. Regular testing allows you to monitor changes and potentially identify if your child’s food allergy has gone away.
It is generally recommended to pursue diagnostic allergy testing after you have observed your child having a reaction to the food. Blood and skin prick testing can have
false positive rates of 50% — meaning that one in two positive results can cause you worry when no clinical allergy actually exists.
Knowing your child has already had a reaction to a certain food increases the chances that a positive result truly indicates a food allergy. This means that it is still recommended to
introduce common allergens at home first, in small amounts. If your child already has a diagnosed food allergy, it is important to continue introducing other common allergens at home (not the food they are allergic to).
Keep track of any reactions your child has to the food.
There are three types of allergy tests: skin prick tests, blood tests, and oral food challenges.
Skin Prick Tests
Skin prick tests are exactly what they sound like: a health professional pricks your child’s skin with a tiny amount of the allergen, usually on their back. Skin prick tests are designed to detect whether your child creates IgE antibodies to that food allergen — in other words, whether their immune system is
sensitized to that food. If they are, a reaction looking like a small raised bump (similar to a mosquito bite) will appear, usually within 15 minutes.
Skin prick tests will not tell you the severity of the allergy, nor if your child is allergic to a food they have never consumed. In other words, skin prick tests will only tell you if your child has IgE antibodies to the food. It’s possible for your child to have IgE antibodies to a specific food but not actually react to that food when consumed orally. This is why knowing whether your child has reacted to the food in the past is critical in interpreting results accurately.
Medications that suppress allergic reactions can interfere with skin tests. It’s often recommended to not take antihistamines, such as Children's Zyrtec, 3-5 days before the test. So the test may need to be postponed if the medication is taken too close before the test.
Anaphylaxis can also cause skin tests to be falsely negative for 4-6 weeks after a reaction. So if the child has experienced anaphylaxis, talk to your doctor about possibly postponing the skin test. During this 4-6 week timeframe, blood tests may still be done. Check with your doctor on their specific recommendations.
If stopping antihistamines is not possible, your child cannot take a skin prick test for other reasons (such as severe eczema on the back), or the skin prick test results are unclear, your doctor may recommend a blood test.
Blood Tests
Blood tests are also designed to detect whether your child has IgE antibodies to the food. Unlike skin prick tests, however, the results from a blood test can take days to weeks to return. This is because a blood test relies on a standard blood draw that is then sent to the lab to test for antibody levels.
Similar to skin prick tests, blood tests can produce false positives which may suggest your child has a food allergy when they are not clinically allergic. And, like skin prick tests, blood tests do not necessarily tell you about the severity of the allergy, nor whether your child will react to foods they have not previously consumed.
Blood tests can also be used to monitor an allergy over time. Regular blood tests help you monitor whether your child’s allergy is persisting or resolving over time.
Oral Food Challenge: The Most Definitive Allergy Test
The oral food challenge is the most accurate way to diagnose food allergies. This is because the oral food challenge best recreates the real-world conditions of your child consuming the food. This allows your allergist to best understand how your child reacts and how severe the reaction is. Consuming the allergen in a clinical setting means medical professionals are on hand to respond to any concerning reactions.
To complete an oral food challenge, your child will consume increasing amounts of the suspected allergen over the course of one visit. Your child will start by consuming a very small amount of the allergen. If there is no reaction within 10-15 minutes, your child will consume more. This process will continue until the child shows an allergic reaction or reaches a full dose.
Results from the oral food challenge are immediate, but only one potential allergen can be tested at a time. The oral food challenge is the most reliable test for food allergy diagnosis. The procedure can also be used if parents are nervous about introducing a new food at home, or to determine whether the child has outgrown the allergy.
Tips for Parents
If you are considering allergy testing, you probably already have a lot on your mind. Here are some tips for making the experience go as smoothly as possible:
- If you are having a skin prick test or an oral food challenge, bring entertainment. The 15-20 minute waiting period(s) is basically an eternity for babies. The fact that they should not touch their back for this timeframe (for a skin test), despite it potentially becoming itchy or uncomfortable, doesn’t make it easier. Bring some trusted favorite toys, or even save some new surprises for the clinic visit, just to make the time go a bit more smoothly.
- If you are having a blood test, make sure your baby is well-hydrated, and talk to your doctor about finding a lab that has experience with drawing on infants. Just like with adults, being well-hydrated makes the blood draw easier — which can be critical when you have a crying baby on your hands!
- If your baby has eczema, manage any active rashes in the areas where testing will be done.
- For all tests, confirm with your allergist when to stop any medications. Usually, antihistamines should be stopped 3-5 days before testing, while epinephrine should not be given for 4-6 weeks prior to the test.
And, take care of yourself too! Testing can be stressful for both baby and parent. Just like the clinic might give your baby a treat for being a trooper through the process, be sure to treat yourself too.
A Note on At-Home Food Allergy Test Kits
Some companies produce and market allergy panels directly to consumers. Such tests usually require a blood sample taken at home. The sample is sent to their lab (which is not always accredited) where it is analyzed. Results are sent back identifying food allergies.
Unfortunately, such kits can produce unreliable results that may lead to unnecessary dietary restrictions. There is a pretty wide range on the quality of these tests, with many not involving a licensed clinician and using controversial methodology to test for allergies. Discussion with your doctor remains the most recommended path to a food allergy diagnosis.
What To Do In Case of a Reaction: A Brief Guide
If your child has a food allergy, accidents can happen where they may inadvertently end up consuming the food to which they are allergic. If this happens, don’t panic — the key is to be prepared and stay calm. The information below is intended as a brief overview, or as a resource for you to refer back to if needed. This is not intended as a replacement for medical information. Be sure to discuss emergency planning and practice necessary skills with your child’s doctor.
Two items are critical to always have on hand: an antihistamine, such as Children’s Zyrtec, and epinephrine.
- Children's Zyrtec (cetirizine): Liquid Children's Zyrtec can help treat mild allergic reactions, such as hives or itching. Symptoms should subside or improve approximately 15 minutes after treatment. You can find general dosing guidelines here, but confirm the appropriate dose with your pediatrician.
- Epinephrine: Epinephrine is used to treat severe allergic reactions, such as anaphylaxis. Epinephrine is available as an injectable device or as a nasal spray (for children ages 4 and up or over 33 lbs). Use epinephrine immediately (“Epi first, Epi fast!”) if you see any symptoms of severe reaction, including:
- Anaphylaxis (severe, multisystem reactions)
- Difficulty breathing or swallowing
- Severe skin reactions with other symptoms
- Severe vomiting or diarrhea after allergen exposure
Allergic reactions can vary in how they look and their severity. The table below summarizes a range of potential symptoms as well as the corollary recommended action. Remember, knowledge is power. While we hope you will never need to take emergency measures, it is better to be prepared than to be caught unprepared!

- Hives, mild swelling, or itching


- Mild upset stomach
- Occasional spitting up

- Take a picture and send it to your pediatrician, or call for immediate guidance
- Treat with antihistamines (Children's Zyrtec)
- Monitor closely

- Hives
- Facial swelling
- Widespread redness or flushing

- Persistent congestion
- Mild cough

- Persistent vomiting
- Cramping
- Diarrhea


- Treat with antihistamines (Children's Zyrtec)
- Call your pediatrician

- Hives across the whole body
- Significant swelling of the face, lips, and/or tongue
- Swelling in other parts of the body

- Difficulty breathing
- Wheezing
- Severe Cough

- Vomiting and diarrhea AND other symptoms
- Pain in the stomach with severe cramping

- Dizziness
- Confusion
- Fainting or loss of consciousness

- Call 9-1-1 immediately
- Use epinephrine if you have it
Rallying Your Child's Allergy Support Community
As your child grows, they will interact with ever-widening segments of the world with increasing independence. All individuals responsible for caring for your child, from babysitters to daycare centers, need to be informed about and prepared to participate in managing your child’s food allergy. When your child is young, you will be in charge of this communication. As your child grows, however, it is important they understand their food allergy and feel empowered to advocate for themselves in any environment. It is never too early to start developing these skills!
Emergency Action Plans (EAP)
Emergency action plans are personalized written documents, commonly developed by your child’s allergist or pediatrician, that provide clear, step-by-step instructions for recognizing and treating an allergic reaction in your child. They should be shared with any individual responsible for caring for your child, such as daycare centers, schools, babysitters, and family members. Daycares or schools frequently have specific forms that families with a child with a food allergy are required to complete prior to enrollment. If your daycare or school doesn't have such forms, use the
FARE (Food Allergy Anaphylaxis Emergency Action Plan) form available from food allergy organizations.
It is also useful to develop a plan in case your child needs to go to the emergency room. It is useful to bring a copy of your EAP to the emergency room, as well as information about what allergen was consumed, the timeline of symptoms, medications administered, and the child’s medical history.
Keep in mind that your child’s emergency plan will be tailored to their specific medical needs and situation. In addition to the forms noted above, useful information on how to prepare yourself, your child, and their school can be found
here,
here, and
here.
Detailed records of your child’s reactions are helpful when coordinating among multiple caregivers. Having one shared tool, like the
First Bites app, where you and other caregivers can record your child’s reactions helps keep all caregivers on the same page and working well together to ensure your child’s safety.
Take the information here as a starting point, and be sure to work with your allergist to develop detailed plans addressing your child’s needs.
Teaching Your Child Self-Advocacy
It is never too early to start teaching your child about their food allergy. This can be done by establishing routines around critical skills your child will need to independently manage their food allergy. Such routines could include
reading food labels together, discussing the ingredient lists, or checking medications for their expiration date. You can also practice emergency scenarios with your child, or involve them when communicating with new caregivers.
They key elements of age-appropriate education should include:
- Recognizing symptoms of allergic reactions
- Understanding how their food allergen could show up in foods, such as pine nuts in pesto or hazelnuts in Nutella.
- Communication skills for common social situations, such as informing restaurant staff of their food allergies or asking for details on the ingredients in a particular dish.
- Understanding their medications, including what they are and when to use them.
Remember, the ultimate goal is that your child will be able to manage their allergy by themselves!
Nutritionist Support
Some families may feel concerned that their child’s diet is restricted due to food allergies and may benefit from additional support from a nutritionist. There are many insurance-covered, easily accessible nutritionists. You can ask your pediatrician or allergists for recommendations/referrals if this is an option of interest for your family.
Taking Care of You: How Managing Your Child's Food Allergies Can Affect Your Mental Health
You want nothing more than for your child to be safe, healthy, and happy. When you’re perpetually worried about what foods they may be exposed to, this can feel pretty overwhelming — but you’re not alone. The stress of managing a food allergy can impact the entire family. Mothers frequently bear the majority of the burden, though anyone can be affected.
Furthermore, it can be hard to take the time to care for yourself when you feel so much pressure to constantly be on high alert for your child. But remember: Taking care of yourself makes you better able to care for your child. Stress, burnout, anxiety, and depression all negatively impact your capacity to connect with and be present for your child. You matter!
Here are a few strategies for taking care of your mental health:
- Knowledge. Knowledge builds confidence and is critical to stopping the anxious brain from coming up with neverending worst-case scenarios. Understand how allergies work. Know how to identify allergic reactions and how to respond. Separate facts from fear. Have faith in yourself, and feel confident in your ability to manage your child’s allergy effectively. You know them best!
- Turn down the pressure. You don’t need to be perfect in every way, on every day. Be clear about the non-negotiable demands and identify which things have some wiggle room in your life. Celebrate the small, everyday wins over the course of this food allergy journey. All of it counts.
- Reach out for support. Help is around you in one form or another. Perhaps your support looks like a partner who can help take on the load of grocery shopping, or a friend who can help you research nearby clinics. More formal support may include support groups, registered dieticians, or school counselors. Mental health therapists specializing in medical conditions are available to provide professional support when you need a neutral sounding board.
- Reduce the mental load. Keeping track of what foods your child is consuming, which allergens they have been exposed to, and when the next doctor’s appointment is — on top of everything else you’re doing as a parent — is exhausting! Acknowledge how much mental load you are taking on, and offload as much as you can. First Bites is designed especially for this, helping you keep track of food exposures, reactions, and potential allergens so you can save that mental energy for other things (like yourself).
And, keep in mind, your experience as well as your child’s experience will evolve as they grow. Taking care of your own well-being, just like taking care of your child’s, is an ongoing process and not a one-and-done. Periodically check in with yourself and adjust your personal care plan to best meet you and your family’s current needs.
You've Got This! (A Pep Talk for Parents)
Even if you feel like there is a lot of information and many moving pieces to manage, we’re here to remind you: You’ve got this. You worked with your child’s doctor to confirm an allergy diagnosis and have a treatment plan in place. You are prepared with antihistamines and epinephrine in case of emergency. You are knowledgeable about allergies, potential reactions, and prevention. You are using tools like
First Bites to help organize your food journey, track allergen exposures, and record reactions.
You are doing everything you can, so now, let yourself breathe a little easier.
Thousands of families successfully manage food allergies every day. With proper preparation and precautions, your child can participate in normal childhood activities, and your family can focus on making cherished memories. Food allergies are one part of your family’s story, but they do not need to define it.
Remember, feel confident in your knowledge, lean on your medical team and support system, and be kind to yourself. Take it one day at a time, and remind yourself that you are doing all you can to give your child what they need to live safely and confidently with their food allergy.